Helping Children Through Pet Loss

In this video, I talk about the challenges of helping children navigate pet loss. As a veterinarian specializing in hospice care, I often guide parents through the difficult decision of whether their children should be present during euthanasia. Every child is different, and their understanding of death varies by age, which is why it’s important to approach this topic with care and preparation.

Young children, especially under seven, often struggle to grasp the permanence of death. They may not fully understand what’s happening and take cues from their parents’ emotions. This can make it difficult for parents, who are already dealing with their own grief, to support their child while also saying goodbye to their beloved pet. Older children may have more awareness but can still experience deep sadness and need reassurance.

To help families through this, we’ve created a detailed resource page on our website that offers guidance based on a child’s age, ways to talk about loss, and activities to help them process grief. We also provide pamphlets during home visits and encourage families to prepare in advance by discussing their approach with a family therapist or other trusted professional.

Whatever decision you make—whether to have your children present or not—is valid. As both a veterinarian and a mother, I understand how difficult this process can be. My goal is to provide support, resources, and reassurance to help you navigate this emotional time with compassion.